To the editor,

If you follow the headlines, you know that child sexual abuse happens. It happens often and close to home. This reality can be overwhelming, but it’s important to remember that child sexual abuse can be prevented when we all play our part.

April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month, and this April communities across the country are standing up for child sexual abuse preventing by proclaiming “It’s time... to talk about it!”

All adults have a role in child sexual abuse prevention and this year’s campaign encourages individuals and communities to support healthy childhood sexual development by talking early, talking often and taking action.

By learning and talking about healthy childhood sexual development, adults are able to support the children in their lives. When adults support age-appropriate behaviors, model healthy boundaries and speak up to other adults, they are an ally to prevention. It’s also our job to respect children, model healthy behaviors and boundaries, and confront adults when they act in ways that are not appropriate.

There is often silence and discomfort when it comes to the discussion of sexual development. It’s important to understand that this is a normal experience we all share. By opening up communication, sharing age-appropriate information with children, and educating one another we are taking steps toward a safer community.

Choose to start the conversation about healthy childhood sexual development. whether you are a parent, educator or community member, it’s time for you to start talking early and often to support an environment where children are safe.

It’s time.. to talk about it!

In honor of Sexual Assault Awareness Month, Friends Against Abuse presents “Kind Hearted Woman,” a local survivor’s journey to healing. Robin Charboneau, a 32-year-old divorced single mother and Oglala Sioux woman, struggles to raise her two children, further her education, and heal herself from the wounds of sexual abuse she suffered as a child.

Charboneau’s story is featured in a PBS film called “Kind Hearted Woman,” which aired on April 1 and 2.

Please join us from 5:30-7:30 p.m. April 25 in the dining room at Backus Community Center to hear Charboneau speak about her journey and about the film. Dinner is provided and will be served at 5:30 p.m.

LeeAnn Meer

executive director

Friends Against Abuse

International Falls, MN